amour.

last week in my favorite class ever we discussed the topic of love.

there's hella shit, but i'll just sum up the main points for you.

*basically, don't be a HOE aka promiscuous cunt. 

Each time you're in a a relationship or "with" someone, you give them a piece of your heart. 

When you finally find someone you'd like to give yourself to whole heartedly, you just can't do it cause you 

spread your love out too thin & wasted your heart on your past encounters.

*love is putting him/her before yourself.

*love is not a feeling because feelings never last. 

there's always going to be that honeymoon period, where you're infatuated, but eventually as time passes, all feelings fade, always. 

So best bet is being with someone who was a friend first, because when the feelings fade, both have a foundation to fall back on.

*"falling in love" is bullshit.

using the term falling means you don't take respnsiblity for your actions when you fall out of love.

"falling" means you didn't have a choice because you just fell.

& love is a choice. 

and lastly, 

"the word love messes people up & fucks with our minds, 

but none of us stop to think about what the word actually means." 

-professor van patten

love, susa.